You watch this movie and you think it sucks, you criticize it through and through; it wasnt funny, it's corny, how did they come out with such line? they should just reshoot this scene because the actors and actresses are just not in their element!
And then you happen to get involve in a film. You did it and woe betide, after all finishing touches and editing, you realize your film is just as sucks as the movie you watched before.
Ok, it's a bit too farfetch, what about the speech that you think given by your peers, you secretly believe that they sucks, and cynically and honestly think that they probably did not prepare themselves for it(why did they not prepare for it!!? Don;t they think this is important?!! I did) And then it's your turn to do your speech, to be fair, you did prepare your best and at the stage you realize upon comment by evaluators(i am talking of course in a toastmaster periodical meeting), you realize he/she gives you an alternative, toned down, somewhat whitewashed version of "you sucks!!"
Y is this happening?
I have the believe that this thing we cold actually extrapolate to stuffs even that are not performance-related, like your love life; when you're in love you can;t make difficult decision when exactly the same scenarios happens to your friend, you totally come outwit ha bitchy yet sincere and apt remark and answer!
It's the proverbial scenario of unable to see your own self from the helicopter view. You see more clearly if you are out of the picture. You are losing the forest for the trees!!
THat is the core reason to my inability to come out with a speech nowadays, I am just too overly critical.
Now this is a great idea, what if you could be two person at the same time, one inside the scene and one in the helicopter? How to achieve that?
If someone could achieve it, critics would be out of business. At least I want to be the only one to devise the secret. This would be my holy grail....
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